the way it is
Some men see things as they are and ask why. Others dream things that never were and ask why not.
George Bernard Shaw
As children, all of us passed through a “why?” stage. In the brain’s pursuit of adjusting to the world, our parents were bombarded with inquiries into the most mundane of things, so that we would learn and understand. They might have hated our incessant questioning, but we grew, listening intensely to their answers, and the world started to make sense.

